POSITIVE ATTITUDE

 

"Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude towards it, for that determines our success or failure"

                               - Norman Vincent Peale

        Everyone has some strenghts and weaknesses. Some of them focus on only negative, weaknesses and start feeling disappointed. Some focuses more on strength and these are positive people. Positive attitude means practicing to become positive in every situation. There are lots of benefit of positive attitude:

• It Increases productivity, 
• Solves problems,
•  brain sharpens,
• Boosts creativity,
• Makes a pleasing personality,
• Better relation with your partner, friend, co-workers,
• Create healthy work environment,
• Reduces stress, anger,
• Benefit for society,
• Maintain loyality,
• Increases life span

         One should practice following steps to build and maintain positive attitude :

        Start looking for what is right in a person or situation instead of looking for what is wrong. There is something positive in every situation and in every person. Only thing is that you have to search for the positive. Always talk about happiness, health, good qualities, prosperity, strengths to every person you meet. Give everyone a smile. Your problem is not your problem it's your  attitude towards it. Say like even at the moment it seems difficult but with consistent efforts, I will definitely do it.   

Do remember one word " PAINS " -

 P - Positive 

A - Attitude

I - In 

N - Negative 

S - Situation 

         Many of our blessings are hidden treasure. Count that blessings, not trouble. There is a lot to be thankful for. Everyday is not good but there is something good in everyday, agree or not ?

          Negative people will always look for negative. They spread negative messages. Don't let negative people drag you down. Remember that a person's character is not only judged by the company they keeps but also by the company he avoids. If you always take negative doses, it will only secrets negative harmones. But if you take positive, motivational doses you will notice that positive harmones lifts your mood.

            Never make excuses. Never live tomorrow which you can do today. Break the habit of delaying. Enjoy unexpected things, even though you don't want that originally. If boss gives you new task then instead of saying I have never done it before, how could I do that..inspite of that if you say, oh..I get an opportunity to learn something new. That is a positive approach. Fix yourself, modify yourself in such a way that whatever happens you will be ok. Sometimes our fear don't let us think positively. Wait. Don't take action when you are fearful.

          Your mind is a powerful thing fill it with positiveness then your life will start to change. Do remember life is 1% what happens to you but its the 99% how you react to it and how you handle the situation. Remember, S + R = O. Here S is situation, R is response and O is outcome. So your response is responsible for your outcome. If something seems difficult, complicated..tackle it from different angle, change your way of thinking towards the difficulty.

           A baby mosquito come back after his first flying..his mom asked him, how did you feel ? He replies, it was awesome mom, all humans clapped hands for me. What a positive way of thinking..! Don't waste your time on what others think.

           There are two kinds of people - givers and takers. Takers eat good, givers sleep good. Givers have a positive attitude. Be a giver. Be a positive magnet. Then what happens next..? Positive will inturn attracts towards you.