Qualities Needs to Succeed

Desire -

       

       Can small fire give much heat ? No. Likewise a weak desire cannot produce great results. Successful people have big desire, burning desire. A desire that they can't stop themselves from fulfilling their dream.

Commitment and determination -

        

        When we play to win, we play with enthusiasm and commitment and chances are that you win whereas when we play not to lose, we are playing to avoid failure. Successful people are committed and determined to win. They are determined such a way that no one can stop them.

Don't make excuse -

          Majority of people blame others for their mistakes, failures. The problem is that it doesn't allow you to grow. Happy people take responsibility of their mistakes. Use that failure as a chance to change their lives for better.

Spend money on experiences than material things -

            In the book 'The Myths of Happiness'  Sonja Lyubomirsky explained that materialism deplets happiness, threatens satisfaction with our relationships, makes us less likey to help others, makes unhealthy environment. 

Taking risk -

   

             They take risks. These people don't afraid to fail. They know if they fail they learn something and if they succeed someone learn from them.

Responsibility -

         Most people stay in comfort zone and live passive lives without accepting responsibilities. They are looser. They don't take any responsibility while successful people are opposite. They are always eager to take responsibility.

 Handle criticism positively -

          It's important to be able to distinguish honest criticism from jealousy- inspired criticism, this is the skill that successful people have. The more you move towards success, the risk of criticism increased.

Hardwork -

         Nature gives birds their food but never put it in their nests. Birds have to do it by themselves. When we are born we all are empty but afterthat what we do decides our future.

Give more than you get -

  

          Successful people get their work done in time for what they get paid and inspite of that they do more.

Treat everyone with respect and kindness -

          They know in order to gain respect, first you have to give it to others. They are kind to others. They never forget their roots.

Persistence -

           Most of the people when tired after 1-2 attempts, stop working on that problem. But successful people are persistent. They only stop when they find solutions for their problems that is when they reach their goals. 

Optimistic -

          Bad things happen to all of us even happy people also but they don't complain. They think of alternative ways to problems and fix it. They remain optimistic in every situation.

Dream big -

           If you fail to think big, you limit your opportunities. Successful people not only big dream but also work hard to achieve it.

           

Discipline -

            These are disciplined people, they trained themselves to work in strictly controlled manner. They know that being disciplined gives them strength to withstand at difficult times.

Spend time alone

           This give chance to deal with your worries, to take care of health and relaxing the mind.

Celebrate other people's success -

          They never feel jealous of other people. When others win they gives constructive response. Thus they nurture relations. They have 'let's grow together' kind of attitude. They discuss ideas not people.

Growth mindset -

    They know making mistakes is natural part of learning success, they learn and grow from their mistakes. They refuse to quit. They know that only way to better is practice, practice and practice.